On Anonymous Blogging


It’s the mid-noughties. I’m at university, London is blowing my mind, and I’m tapping away on my LiveJournal like my life depends on it. I’m documenting all of my experiences, preserving them through writing, and reading the blog posts of strangers around the world doing the same. I’m reading (and writing) about breakups, sex, mixtapes, road trips, family drama, and beautiful vignettes about places visited, or wild nights out, or a feeling.

I treated my LiveJournal as a kind of late night confessional, a place to process and unpick and get things off my chest. There was no Twitter, no Instagram, no Snapchat back then. Facebook was just taking off, the wifi connection in our halls of residence was patchy at best, and everyone still spent hours creating MySpace layouts. People didn’t think about ‘managing’ their online presence. Anonymity still had value on the internet, in fact it was the norm.

Skip to 2017 and almost all of that is gone. Reddit is the only mainstream site that springs to mind when I try to think of an online community that has anonymity at its core. Everywhere you look now people are creating glossy narratives about their lives on myriad social media accounts, and the kind of unfiltered ramblings that were the norm on sites like LiveJournal are just a dim memory. Selfie-consciousness reigns supreme.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what all this means for writers, and for me as a writer. My writing developed through the act of ‘journaling’, particularly online journaling; it’s the kind of writing I know best and am most comfortable with. As I’ve got older I’ve journaled less and less (something I’m trying to remedy with this blog), mostly, I suppose, because of time restraints and the fact that life becomes kind of routine with age. But the changing landscape of blogging and the relentless rise of social media has also had a huge impact.

The move from long-form writing to ‘micro-expression’ on sites like Twitter was the beginning of the end for the traditional personal blog. No one wanted to read a page of text anymore, why would you when everything can be neatly expressed in 140 characters? I fell into the habit of tweeting and found that I wrote – and wanted to write – less and less. After a while this left me feeling kind of empty. I can’t help but think that in the process of cutting down the amount we write we’re forgetting how to meaningfully write about ourselves and our lives.

Perhaps even more damaging than the micro-expression exodus has been the move towards almost total non-anonymity online, a change which has radically altered how people write about and present themselves on the internet. We have lost something in this merging of our online and offline selves. Anonymous blogs (even anonymous social media accounts, trolls aside) can be very engaging because there is less of a tendency to present yourself or your life as a ‘brand’. You’re completely free to be honest and vulnerable. This is what lies at the heart of good writing, and so by extension good blogging.

I miss the abundance of thoughtful, honest, creative writing that was around in those LiveJournal years. Yes, there was a lot of guff in the mix, a lot of badly written, ‘I’m bored so I guess I’ll write this post’ posts, but when it was good it was really good because people really opened up. The combination of anonymity and long-form writing being the norm created something beautiful and real. Thankfully, this fragile thing still exists in various corners of the internet, not least here on WordPress (LiveJournal has long since become a blog graveyard). For that, at least, I am grateful. I look forward to reading about your messy, imperfect lives soon.

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267 Responses to On Anonymous Blogging

  1. Reblogged this on Julia's Journal and commented:
    Thank you, Tiny Rubies, your article was inspiring and insightful. Anonymous blogging is very liberating! I always struggled with writing, but anonymity has given me greater freedom in expression and provides endless possibilities. It is a springboard to creativity as I can be whatever I want to be, while channelling my thoughts and feelings in a constructive way. I can’t think of anything better!

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  2. Hey great writing! Also do follow me back! Thanks!

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  3. I am an anonymous blogger myself. But with real and honest stories to share, to tell with the hope of inspiring others and unleash their true, messy and beautifully creative self.
    Please visit my blog http://www.noregretplease.com
    Thank you.


  4. Mishmash Media Blog says:

    This post resonates with me, as people I know have found my blog, and now I feel cannot just ramble on as I have in the past. However, I’ve decided to write as me and just carry on the ramblings about a mishmash of stuff, and hopefully other people will enjoy some of my posts. Very enlightening!

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  5. sunsetbrave says:

    Just started my personal blog! I feel like it’s a new avenue for me to release the clogged up stress and anxiety in me. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! it really means a lot to me 🙂 xx

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  8. Wow, I miss LiveJournal! I’m trying to get back into long-form journaling through blogging, too, and I appreciated your reflections on the topic.


  9. I too appreciate anonymous blogging, and kept one for three years as a place to vent emotions. I was working through some painful and things in my life. As life changed and I changed, I no longer felt the call to write completely anonymously. But it affords a certain freedom, doesn’t it?

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  10. abetterman21 says:

    I can identify with this. Blogging somehow helps to translates m thoughts out into words. But it really makes me think about how to have what is in my heart translated out properly.

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  11. Yes, yes and yes. I kept a public xanga and a private one for my writing. My best friend kept a livejournal and her roommates for many years she met on LJ.

    “But the changing landscape of blogging and the relentless rise of social media has also had a huge impact.
    The move from long-form writing to ‘micro-expression’ on sites like Twitter was the beginning of the end for the traditional personal blog. No one wanted to read a page of text anymore, why would you when everything can be neatly expressed in 140 characters? ” I’ve been thinking a lot about this. I feel a bit dejected lately thinking about the state of things (in every respect) and do find myself longing for those days when the internet was a place that felt almost… magical. Maybe it was just youth? Who knows…

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  12. climbingmoss says:

    Thanks for writing this and well done, We run Climbing Moss (www.climbingmoss.co.uk obvious plug!) and have done as Him and Her for nearly two years, but recently felt it was too impersonal, so have started to name ourselves in an attempt to get interaction and more followers, but we aren’t big fans of social media and the need to constantly tell everyone, everything you are doing and going, so we still write long posts and try to include paragraphs of writing – like you as a writer – I feel the need to describe and expand on my observations and thoughts.
    Well lets hope that 140 character blog posts aren’t the way forward!


  13. 1800quarterlifecrisis says:

    Love it!!


  14. Completely relate to this !


  15. Anonymity allows for true, unabashed honesty and creativity (and unfortunately creepiness), yet there are fewer and fewer safe spaces to accomplish this online and in real life. Judging by the comments, your post seems to have stirred something up amongst those not interested in curating their writing and lives for the purpose of public consumption and approval. Bravo to you- I feel like this wave of sentiment is a bit punk rock 😉 “For those about to write- I salute you!”


  16. 46934396834636e says:

    Hi everyone, I thought anonymous blogging was less popular but as it seems, some blogs around here are in the same situation as me. I started my anon blog yesterday and I’m currently working on gathering some followers. I’m going through a pretty tough time in my life and I would appreciate it if any of you would like to visit my blog and not leave me alone in this journey. Thanks a lot!


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  18. Kinnii says:

    Omygod I so relate to this.. I started blogginf in 2004 and as every blogger I wrote about life and my experiances and my thought processes.. But it soon became difficult to share the posts with people I know and having me being judged by other people. Sometimes I feel that it is better to just have my life remain a mystry so that my difficulties are not written off or my achievements are not lebelled as luck or entitlement. So nywys I changed my writing style to story telling and fiction. But still there are days where I yearn to write wats on my mind and click Publish so that other people can relate to me or atleast get a different point of view..


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